I read this article from belief.net about how to the deal the best way with criticism. I find this to be so helpful especially when we come across with people who loves to criticize. In the article, it gives 10 tips on how to cope with criticism but I find this particular one hit me in the best possible way. Not that I am always criticize by somebody close to me but I just want to share this one with you. I am sure it will also hit home with you. Here it goes and I hope you will all have a lovely day.
DRAW CLEAR BOUNDARIES WITH BIG CRITICS
You get to choose who and what you will tolerate in your life. If you are in a personal or working relationship with someone who tries to whittle away your self-esteem by constantly judging and belittling you, you owe it to yourself to create boundaries and to tell that person how you feel when that happens. It’s important for your well-being to remove yourself from that toxic energy. It can weigh you down, stunt your creativity, and make you feel depressed or sick.
Try this: Decide on a specific action you will take if the judger in your life continues to bombard you with criticism. Clearly, lovingly, and firmly tell him or her what you will do if it happens again. For example, you may decide to leave the room, politely excuse yourself from the phone call, or, if it’s serious enough, end the relationship altogether. Be sure to follow through and take that action. When you honor yourself, you are training other people to honor you.
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